Mastering a tough transition in your life is as important as knowing where your life is heading. But, don't forget about your Safety Net.....Esther ended up queen of the empire, yet never stopped communicating with her uncle and spiritual guide Mordecai. Ruth and Naomi were constant helps to each other once they chose to return to Israel together—Ruth provided the daily needs, while Naomi directed the social opportunities (and eventual courtship) of her daughter-in-law. Paul was shepherded by Ananias and Barnabas throughout his early ministry. After Christ returned to heaven, Peter paired up with John, each relying on the other throughout their ministry.
Often the stress of a major transition makes us isolate ourselves from others. And while you certainly don’t want advice from every well-meaning person who offers it, maintaining a strong network of local friends and family will only strengthen your chances of success. A long-distance friend you text and talk with daily probably isn’t going to be strong enough to prevent the inevitable panic attacks at being overwhelmed by unfamiliar circumstances. Allowing the strain to build up without a healthy outlet will only create an opportunity for a meltdown, perhaps even sin, that a long-distance friend will be helpless to prevent. A local friend can be your protector.
The key is to cling to the best friends and/or advisors. They needn’t be your best friend, but someone—perhaps your class coordinator, a student pastor, a fellow believer in your group—who understands you and your situation well. A coach, who can watch from the sideline of your life and give you context, advice, and insight as you attempt to master your transition game. By the way, that's what friends are for. Your Safety Net!
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